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A Cuckold Quickie Ambush

Written by Vanessa Raqs

 

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Dirty Talk

While, as a phone sex operator, I’m no stranger to dirty talk…it gets downright filthy at times, in fact…the truth is, I still experience a moment of shyness just before the words leave my mouth (and perhaps while imagining other things going into my mouth?). I suppose this means I don’t become easily jaded, which I consider a strength in my line of work. Those dirty, filthy, provocative words and phrases, may always feel a little bit like Taboo, to me.

And, yes, you will need to set up a session if you want to hear me say them.

Dirty talk comes in so many flavors… And everyone has their preferences. I don’t assume to know what any one client needs to hear…although I have my standbys. I’m open to being told what I need to say, to get my caller off!

Some clients find it far more tantalizing to keep the chitchat (roleplay, flirting, storytelling…) on the innocent side… That can certainly feel dirtier to the right ears, and in the right circumstances.

So, let’s have a little exchange, shall we? Fill out my contact form, below, and tell me; what do you like to hear, and what do you like to say, when it comes to dirty talk? That’s it, try to shock me, boys! Let’s make this fun. Who can make the PSO blush?

 For my end of the exchange, I will write you back and give you a passphrase which you can give back to me, over the phone, to receive 5 Free Phone Sex Minutes, to be added to yourpaid session!

XXX~Vanessa

 

 

Sexy Things & Where to Find Them

Some think it’s odd that I list Etsy as one of my preferred gift card links in my website’s sidebar. After all, the Etsy marketplace is known for its crafts and artists. Not lingerie, bondage, or fetishes…right? However, stop to consider the wide variety of products this “crafter’s market” entails!

Are you looking for a sexy gift, for someone special? Know someone who has a perfume fetish? And, speaking of fetishes… You can indulge nearly any fetish you can think of, at the Etsy marketplace!

Try a search for “Sexy lingerie”, “Lace masquerade mask”, “Burlesque”, “Lace lingerie”, “Leather lingerie”, “Victorian corset”, “Romantic perfumes”, “Bondage”… The options are limitless and offer a wide range of prices. Look for glowing reviews from sellers and keep in mind that many sellers also offer the option for customized buying. In other words, if you find something close to what you want, contact the seller and see if they can’t get it just a bit closer to your goal.

Your special someone will appreciate handmade, artisan, unique gifts. Not every sexy thing has to come from Victoria’s Secret.

And… When in doubt, buy a gift card! If there is one thing that a woman loves as much as, if not more than, receiving gifts, it’s shopping! Spoil your sexy lady and she will spoil you right back.

Against the Wall ~ Quickie Series

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Naughty Desires, Delights & Specialties

 

Getting naughty with Vanessa…

“What do you like?”, “How would you like to get naughty?”

These are questions which I get asked often, in calls. It still touches me that, while paying for a session, you guys still want to know what you can do to turn me on!

First off…your excitement is most important to me. Knowing that I am hitting the right “buttons” excites me… I get wet knowing that you’re turned on by me, by the naughty things I’m doing and saying. I have found myself getting very hot over things that I’d never have expected would turn me on, simply because the guy I’m playing with, is so into it! I can’t say it enough–if you’re loving it, then I’m getting off on it too!

As for my personal kinks, turn-on’s, favorite roles, and go-to masturbation fantasies…

I love to be dominated!! When a man tells me how he wants to hold me down, tie me up, and make me take it, however and wherever he wants to give it to me…my body turns to lava and I get wet, fast! I’m getting wet right now, just writing about it!

I love to fantasize about being the teen babysitter, schoolgirl or cheerleader… Being seduced by the older neighbor or, hell, the entire college football team!

Yep, these are the kinds of things that this naughty housewife daydreams about, while she’s home alone, taking breaks from her chores…

And…I really love anal sex! Some of my best, most intense orgasms have happened during anal sex, while I use a favorite vibrator on my clit. We are talking scream-inducing, uncontrolled climaxes, here–tell me you’re going to make me take it all, up my tight, sexy ass, and listen to me lose control!

Oral? Oh, yes! On you? Yes please!! I can’t tell you how many times I’ve made myself cum, masturbating to the thought of a man gripping my hair, to hold me in place, while he cums in my mouth or all over my face!

I respond very well to passionate scenarios… The more you want me, the more you want to do dirty, naughty things to me…the more responsive and excited I am going to get.

As you have likely already realized, I also really love toys… Vibrators, dildos, Benewah balls…did I mention vibrators? I really love vibrators… There is one next to me, right now, which is looking extremely tempting, while I write this!

Despite being primarily submissive, I have been surprised often, by how turned on I get by the idea of tying someone else up. Of making you endure my will. I must even admit to experiencing an adrenaline rush from being sexually dominant and even cruel. I am most comfortable in a submissive role but I suppose we all have the capacity to get high off of power. I am no exception.

Being a PSO (phone sex operator), I expect that it should come as no surprise when I tell you that money turns me on, also. I even love to read about courtesans, geisha, and other professions like my own throughout history. The thought of a man giving me cash so that he can take his release with me, is hot! I mean, REALLY! Hot!

Heard enough about what I like best? Okay…

I am also quite good with role-play. I am intelligent, articulate and skilled with storytelling. I enjoy being a new character. I am very comfortable with make-believe. My vivid imagination and well-developed inner eye, will put me right there in the fantasy with you! Want me to be someone in particular? Want to fulfill an elaborate fantasy which is unobtainable in our daily mundane lives? Want to try something new, naughty and daring, in a safe manner? I am very willing to help you with that…

I enjoy mutual masturbation, masturbation instruction, telling you what I am doing to myself or what I would like to be doing to you…

 I adore the girlfriend experience! I am sweet, affectionate, romantic, extremely appreciative of being spoiled, eager to please and I love to build a bonded relationship with my guy.

I’ve tried many new things, since becoming a PSO. It has been my aim to push my own boundaries, explore new things… Everyone has limits, of course, but I try to take my own with a grain of salt. When it comes to trying anything truly new or uncomfortable, I gain courage from information. The more I know, the better I can settle into the role. If you are unsure about my ability to take on whatever it is you have in mind, don’t hesitate to contact me. I’m very easy to talk to. I am sweet, caring and encouraging. I don’t bite… Unless asked to! And, when I do, be assured that I enjoy it!!

So…what are you looking for?

 

 

Payment Obstacles, Anonymity & Bitcoin

Allow me to begin by saying that, while this blog post is about payments, in general, on adult websites, I have an agenda to put an emphasis on paying with Bitcoin and cryptocurrencies. I want to hear your feedback on this subject, either in reply to this blog entry or directly, by email.

Payments on adult sites (in this case, for phone sex services) can be tricky. Credit cards leave trails, though they may be discrete. They come with fees, red tape and weighty regulations. These can affect both merchant and buyer in a variety of ways, and they carry the risk of chargebacks for the merchant. Chargebacks result in long-term consequences which affect both the client and the merchant. A Popular and common solution, are Visa/MasterCard gift cards, which give back anonymity and are slightly easier to use as they are not directly associated with a specific address or name, but still many find them lacking in expediency at checkout.

After all, when you’re in the mood… you want checkout to be fast!

Sites such as PayPal, are strictly against being used on adult sites. Were you to use PayPal on my own PSO site, and were PayPal to discover this, they would shut down my account posthaste and keep any currency I might presently have stored on their website. Additionally, PayPal offers no anonymity, no privacy, to either side. All personal information is displayed readily. I don’t want this for myself or for my clients.

Many other payment services are lacking in privacy. Many leave  susceptible to fraud.

I’ve been offered payments by direct bank wire, Western Union, PayPal, and a variety of other sources… As I’m sure you can well imagine! Many of these payment options put my own safety and personal information in jeopardy. Which, obviously, is one of the biggest reasons why I don’t accept them.

Now, moving on to the subject of Bitcoin…

Over the past decade, a new form of currency has been created and nurtured. Cryptocurrencies (encrypted currencies)–primarily Bitcoin–are an exciting, confusing, mostly-anonymous, and expedient means of payment. It comes with its own risks and rewards. It also requires a solid, basic understanding in order to use it properly. That said, it could possibly be the most ideal form of payment on adult websites such as my own. In the past, taking Bitcoin as payment on PSO sites, has failed, primarily due to a lack of understanding. Now that the word ‘Bitcoin’ is becoming more commonplace in society, it might be time to try again…

I want to know what you think! I want to read comments and thoughts, and I want those of you who might be interested in playing with Bitcoin, to do some research and draw your own personal conclusions. Personally, I am a big fan of Bitcoin! But when it comes to a person’s own finances, each of us needs to draw their own conclusions. Hence, take their own risks. I am going to include links in this blog to some potentially helpful sources of information. Feel free to go further however.

I appreciate my readers and my clients, and I want to thank you for taking the time to read this blog entry. I hope to hear from some of you!

One last comment on my part… Even if you have no interest in purchasing phone sex sessions, or any interest in cryptocurrency investments, I still encourage you to dip your toe in the water and learn! This is fascinating stuff! And it has the potential to be a big game changer for the financial workings of our global community. We live in a time of big changes, which happen fast. Don’t hesitate to stay well-informed.

 

A few places to start…

– Here is an example of using Bitcoin & the Bitpay Wallet:

 How to Use a Bitcoin Wallet – Bitpay

– Begin obtaining a well-rounded understanding of the basics…start from the beginning!

Bitcoin Basics (Part One)

– Want more background information? Varying perspectives?

The Bitcoin Phenomenon

 

Entering the Holidays!

 

I hope everyone’s making plans for a wonderful & sexy holiday season! I am certainly eager to start my own wish list & you can bet there will be toys on it! Who would like to be Santa & let me sit on their lap…? You’d better have a good thick candycane for me to suck on…

I want to take this moment to say thank you, to my callers and most especially, those of you who have decided to be my valued regulars. I appreciate you and enjoy your company, immensely! I look forward to many future sessions with each of you.

I have also been thinking about a sexy new pinup for a “Mrs. Clause” version of cartoon Vanessa. I look forward to presenting her sometime this holiday season, in the hopes that her candycane-striped, ruffled booty and thigh-high, fur-trimmed, red stockings, give you all one more reason to smile as we head into the busiest time of the year.

And remember, if the holidays get too stressful, give me a call… I’d love to help you to keep smiling through all the chaos!

 

XX ~ Vanessa

 

How to Have a Great Phone Sex Session with a PSO

 

Written by Vanessa Raqs

 

The first thing you need to know about how to have a phone sex session, is that I want you to enjoy yourself. Through my own sexual experiences and the life I’ve lived, I realize that every individual on this big planet, is unique in their sexual tastes. I don’t expect you to fall into any one category when you call.

I also don’t always expect you to know exactly what you want.

That said, relax! Or, try to. It’s alright to be nervous too… I understand well, what that’s like.

Phone sex sessions are about having fun together, sharing excitement, and exploring. Maybe it’s even about laughter, sharing secrets, and getting to know one another. For some, phone sex is, itself, is a fetish  For some, it is therapeutic. For others, phone sex with an operator can even be downright necessary, based on your lifestyle, physiology, proclivities, etc. Some of us simply have extremely vivid imaginations and therefore find phone sex to be more fulfilling than other sexual experiences (stimulated mind…stimulated body). Whatever the case, or your unique situation/tastes, I am here for you. To be yours.

Learning about all of our individual kinks & turn-ons, can take a lifetime.

Or maybe what you are looking for is just somebody to talk to & feel close to. A session can be about any kind of intimacy, it doesn’t always have to be about sex… 

The number one element to an extremely successful phone sex session, is communication. Be vocal! Whether that means moaning when I say or do something you like, or directly telling me what it is you need. Whatever the case…open your mouth and let it fly!

Personally, I really do get most excited, when I hear how excited you are. Please don’t be shy! I want to know you’re having a good time too, with me. If you aren’t, I want to know how to change that. Like I said, everyone is different. it is my job to pay attention to you, to respond to your pleasure and reactions, and to tailor your session to fulfil your needs. I love this part of my job. I love satisfying my partner…finding that perfect sweet spot and playing with it until you explode for me. I love knowing that I am providing you with a stimulating experience, meant just for you.

If it is important to you to know what it is that turns me on, I suggest you read my Erotica. I have yet to write an erotica short story which did not result in my repeatedly taking breaks to spend quality time with my favorite vibrator. I write about what turns me on!

Remember, our sessions are between you and me… The awesome thing about phone sex is… It’s all fantasy! It’s all exploratory. And it’s all safe. This is where you can explore the things that you might not feel comfortable exploring otherwise. Or perhaps, those things which you simply can’t explore otherwise. Phone sex is generally a safe zone. So let’s play!

Are there some subjects which I am less comfortable with than others or unfamiliar with? Of course! I am human, after all… But I’m always open to communication, experimenting and trying new things. You can always send me an email. I regularly communicate with my clients, or prospective clients, through email. We can email back-and-forth until you feel comfortable with calling me.

If you aren’t entirely sure what it is you need from me, more exploration is necessary. In these cases, scheduling a longer session time. It can be really helpful! We can try many different things and see what you respond to. If you are a regular caller, we can learn more, and more about one another over time. I make it my priority to pay attention and to learn from each session we share together.

Phone sex with an operator can be an exciting, safe, non-committal “play date” to explore what turns you on and gets you off.

So, to sum up, when it comes to how to have phone sex with a PSO…when in doubt, communicate… Otherwise, let’s focus on having a good time together! Be playful and open to exploration with a sweet, kinky PSO!

 

XX, Vanessa

Site Update, 10-31-2017

 

Happy Halloween, all!

 

This is going to be a quick update , this week. Truth be told, I have been busy and I admit that I’m quite late in posting this. Many apologies!

My Halloween promotion for Twitter is wrapping up today, but it will give way to new promotions in the near future. Follow my Twitter feed @cumversewithme to be the first to know when promotions are posted.

As you have all likely noticed, I have a sexy new mascot for my website! Cartoon pinup, Vanessa, is going to continue appearing on my website, Twitter page, Blog & ads, in general and for special occasions. In fact, I have big plans for her this Christmas! She was created by the talented artist CutyDina. I highly recommend this artist’s services to those of you who want to add a fun touch to your commercial front. I am very proud to own the rights to these images. I hope you all enjoy them.

More erotica is coming soon… I am presently working on a short story for those of you with an appreciation for a good old-fashioned foot fetish! I’m having a great deal of fun writing this one!

I want to express appreciation to all of you for the great responses I’ve had with regards to my article about the girlfriend experience. Many of you have mentioned it on calls with me. I was surprised and delighted by the response!

As always, www.CumverseWithMe.com continues to develop and improve. It is my goal to make the website more appealing, accessible, and convenient to my clients. I am always open to hearing your suggestions so please don’t hesitate to use the “contact me” link, found in the menu on my main page.

One last thing…a note to my fellow PSO’s: In the coming weeks I am going to be adding links to other quality PSO pages, on my main page. To those of you who are interested in a link exchange, please contact me!

 

XX ~ Vanessa

 

October Promotion ~ Phonesex Deals

Looking for special Phonesex Deals? Well, I have one for you! 

During the month of October, I will be tweeting special instructions to my Twitter followers, on how to receive FIVE FREE MINUTES, in addition to their session! You must be a follower of mine @cumversewithme in order to qualify. Why? Because CumverseWithMe.com and its Twitter page are new (oh, don’t worry…I have plenty of experience to offer you! It’s just CWM that is new to the world of phone sex…not me, not by a long shot!) so it needs followers!

Starting next week, I will select a day, or two, in each week of October, to post the offer. My tweet will provide you with the details you will need in order to get your five free minutes! You don’t have to be a new customer to qualify and I will allow individual customers to take advantage of this promotion multiple times, if they wish, provided they meet the necessary requirements.

Follow me on Twitter to receive this, and future promotions! Following my BLOG (yes, this BLOG) is another good way to stay on top of things… 

Need ideas on how to use your free minutes? Check out the “Specialties” link, which can be found on the main page of CumverseWithMe.com. If you are looking for a submissive to boss around, a playful phone slut, a fantastic blowjob, a sexy giggle and a sweet voice, have a fetish you wish to explore, or some other inclination… Check out what I offer and feel free also to contact me with questions! You can find a short contact form via the “CONTACT ME” link, also found on my main page. All communications are strictly confidential. Sorry… I am no longer able to accept texts. Direct messages via twitter and emails via the contact form, are definitely available though! And, of course, there is the phone.c

I am looking very forward to cumversing with you!

XXX,

Vanessa